This memorial Day lets take time to thank all the brave men and women of our Armed Forces.
It is because of them, that we can complain.
It is because of them, that we can protest.
It is because of them, that we can drive what we want.
It is because of them, that you can get the education that you want
It does not matter if you agree with them or not, it is because of them that you can do so.
And it is because of THEM, that we can enjoy the freedoms that we have.
Not every service member is fortunate enough to be able to celebrate this great holiday, but it is because of them that the rest of us can.
They may not be with us but they will never be forgotten.
And if you have any bitches, moans, gripes or complaints...
THANK YOU!
Sunday, May 27, 2012
Monday, May 14, 2012
Stress and the Unintended Consequences of Our Job
We put on our uniforms every day and go to work. The things
that we deal with on a daily basis will make the normal person cringe. We
raised our hand and volunteered to do this job. We volunteered to deal with the
brutality that society has to offer every day. We volunteered….Our families did
not.
Stress is an ever present factor in our daily lives. It is
an evil that we try to learn how to deal with. I say try because we rarely
succeed at it. We have gotten better at it over the years, but it is still a
constant struggle for us.
It came as a shock to me, but as I was researching the
divorce rates for Law Enforcement and Corrections, I found that the divorce
rate for LEO’s was lower than the national average at 14.7% and for corrections is was higher than the
national average at 21.3%. The national average is 16.35%. I honestly believed
for the longest time that we were at the top of the list (Dancers and
choreographers are at the top with 43.05%).
Even though it is great news that we are not at the top of
the list, when it comes down to stress, there is no doubt that we have one of
the most stressful jobs out there. How we deal with it, and more importantly
how our families are affected by it, is what makes all the difference.
How do we normally deal with stress? Since we are supposedly
built to show no emotion in the face of adversity, we bottle things up and
refuse to talk about our feelings. We don’t need to talk about them, right?
Isn’t talking for sissies? We just need to deal with whatever it is and move
one. How wrong can we possibly be about this train of thought?
We must learn how to control, and deal, with the stress
before it controls us and we loose all control of our lives. When we allow
stress to control us, we face the following just to name a few:
- Increased depression and/or suicidal ideations
- Use and/or abuse of alcohol or drugs
- Increase in health problems, both physical and mental
- Increased isolation
- Increased burnout at work
- Decreased familial interactions
- Increase in extramarital activities
- Decreased communication
- Inability to get adequate sleep
- Increased irritability/anger
I don’t know about you, but I sure don’t like the way that
it makes me feel when the stress starts building up. My back starts knotting
up, shoulders start killing me, can’t sleep well and then I get mad at the drop
of a hat. Not good at all. Who do we take it out on usually? Our family.
Now there are a few things that we can do in order to deal
with the stress and reduce the negative effects of stress:
- Develop or improve your community relationships. It has been shown that people that involve themselves in the community tend to live happier lifestyles.
- Take time for yourself. You need to find time to yourself so that you can unwind after a long day at work. It is better to look like a nutcase in your car on the way home by carrying on an argument with yourself and let it all out than it is to have an argument with your loved ones at home. Don’t let the frustration out on them. You chose the job, they didn’t.
- Get more sleep. If you are finding yourself getting up tired, try going to bed 30 minutes earlier and see if that makes a difference.
- Get into a nightly routine. Whether it is reading a book, listening to music, taking a bath or taking part in your favorite hobby, this can be a great way to relieve stress and relax. You know what you like to do.
- Get into a workout routine. 20-30 minutes of exercise 3 times a week not only increases your overall wellness, but it can also help in reducing stress.
- Forego drinking alcohol when stressed/angry. It may solve your problem at that moment, but the problem will still be there when you are done drinking (and hopefully not made it worse)
- Learn to communicate better with your family members. Bottling things up never work. It always comes out in the end. How it comes out is up to you though.
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
Hiking Safety Tips
Hiking
isn't typically dangerous. Much more often it's a great pleasure, even
an adventure. But you're outside, sometimes far from 'civilization' and
you can get injured or worse. It pays to heed some common sense hiking
safety tips.
- Don't travel alone
Like
any rule, there are exceptions. If you're just going for a stroll in a
nearby, well-traveled area you're as safe there as anywhere. But if you
travel through heavily forested areas, with steep canyons and winding
trails, you can easily get lost. And, of course, there are lots of
gradations in between. Use your judgment.
Traveling
with a Hiking partner will help you in many ways, especially if he or
she is an experienced hiker. People in pairs are much less likely to
panic. They can assist one another up steep grades and apply first-aid
when needed.
He
or she can travel back to the trail head if you're injured. And, if
needed, body heat can be much better conserved when there are two
traveling together. Hypothermia has killed more than one lost hiker
before they could be rescued.
- Know where you're going
This
tip is a lot like the 1st tip. The same concern applies - you don't
want to get lost. Stay on clearly marked or well-traveled trails until
or unless you are experienced enough to take the uncommon route. Yes,
they're sometimes not as interesting. But getting lost is interesting in
a very unpleasant kind of way.
A
map, a compass and/or a GPS unit is a must for any kind of serious
hike. Naturally it has to be usable in the area you hike. Not all units
will continue to function in every area. Get the details of where you
plan to go and ask someone who knows.
- Take some basic gear
You
can go overboard on gear. But for anything more than a simple, two-hour
hike over easy terrain, a large chunk of peace of mind can be bought
very cheaply.
Take
a lighter or matches. Matches can get wet, but a lighter can run out of
fuel. No plan is perfect. A knife, especially one with lots of
genuinely useful (as opposed to merely impressive) gadgets can be a
literal lifesaver.
A
simple first aid kit can also be a lifesaver. Gauze and bandages,
anti-bacterial cream and other standard items are essential. Anti-itch
and sunburn pain reliever can be greatly appreciated sometimes. Aspirin
is one of pharmacology's most under-appreciated drugs. All these things
are small and lightweight. No need to take a miniature doctor's office,
just the basics.
Of
course, you have to have some first-aid knowledge. There are times when
aspirin can be harmful. Gauze and bandages don't do you any good if you
don't know the difference between venous and arterial bleeding.
A flashlight is a must. Toilet paper can be really handy, too.
- Take basic provisions
Water
or other fluids like sports drinks are an obvious essential. You can
lose a lot of fluid even over a two-hour period on a hot day. Heat
stroke can kill, but is easily preventable. Even dehydration can
radically reduce physical performance. Just remember water weighs about 8
lbs per gallon. Take what you need, not much more.
Except
in emergencies, avoid drinking out of streams. Forget TV commercials.
Natural water sources, not always but often, are loaded with bacteria.
Just remember, animals bathe and eliminate in them.
Take
enough food to last you the anticipated hike time. About 1 lb per day
(depending on what you bring) is average for a medium-sized male. You
can last longer without food than water, so trade off when you have to.
- Exercise common sense
Among
other things that means don't get carried away with your enthusiasm -
and a belief in your invincibility - and tempt fate. Despite what you
may have read in and about some places, Mother Nature is quite
indifferent to hurting you when you do dumb things.
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